OK...Deep breath...exhale...here goes. I always knew wanted more but it just seemed to not work for me as I had planned. I dreamed of meeting the right man and settling down and starting a family. I met the right man but my dream of starting a family stalled. Infertility hit me like a truck out of nowhere. How could this be? Why me? I felt alone and I felt like a failure. In fact I felt like a failure for 10 years. Yes, I spent 10 years trying every medical option possible